I'm about as introverted as one can get, but when you meet me, you'll never know it. I need a Dom who won't put up with that. I want a Dom who knows what he wants and demands it from me, but is also gentle and compassionate, will listen to my preferences and - while not always take them into consideration - will at least understand what I'm telling him. |
A friend (also on Alt.com) advised me to add in that I need a sensuous Dom vs a sadist. (She also said something else, but I can't remember - so I'll update as soon as she replies for clarification.)
In an ideal world, I'd love to meet a man who understands that not all women's bodies react to stimuli the same way. I know - fantasy world (yes sarcasm - sorry - couldn't resist . And no - I'm not a woman who is out for a quickie. Yes, I'd like to know the man who is going to tie me up. So if you're not up for chatting, getting to know me and earning my trust so that I can completely submit to you (mentally as well as physically), please move on.
I'd like a Dom who takes charge, is confident but isn't into hurting me - unless I misbehave - and then I will not only expect punishment, if I don't get it, I will be frustrated. Oh - and yeah - I'll test you. If you aren't worthy of my submission, there's no need to continue the relationship.
This profile is a work in progress. So check in occasionally - I might add something new that could change your mind about me. I'd love to hear from you, even if you're just interested in a friendship.
My Ideal Person:
I need someone at least 6 feet tall. I like feeling small next to a man and I absolutely love wearing heels and lingerie. It just doesn't feel right wearing lingerie without the heels and I can't wear heels and be taller than my Dom. Just a thing with me.
Ideally, I'd love someone who is somewhat fit. I love strong arms and cut biceps that can hold me in place. (No big bellies please. I'm sure you are a wonderful man - but it is a preference.)