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Gender:   Woman
Birthdate:   June 10, 1976
(42 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Mattoon, Illinois, United States
Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes
Height:   5 ft 0 in / 152-154 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I don't drink at all
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Some college
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Bi-sexual
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Black
Hair Length :   Long
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   None

I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Not applicable
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Body Decorations : Earring(s); Nose Ring(s); Body Piercings; Tattoo(s)
Breast Size: B
Pubic Hair: Average
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Occupation: self employed
Religion: Spiritual


42 year old Woman in Mattoon, Illinois, United States Looking For: Men, Women or Couples (man and woman)

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You can read my blog... dragonfly_spirit......

the masculine succeeds in the pursuit to open up the feminine energy and get it flowing for him, he must be careful with the dance he has started.

He must be aware of what he is doing, because he is initiating a sacred ritual in her.

It is not wise to just 'play' with arousing a woman's energies, because to her, this dance is an ancient prayer.

Her deep energies are precious, alchemical forces of love. They are not to be tampered with if the intent is in any way impure or motivated by the desire to only casually provoke.

The feminine wants nothing more than to have her energies moved and shaken, yet she yearns for a masculine presence that is spiritually grown-up enough to handle and revel in her when she awakes.

Sophie Bashford

Shit what can I write here? I've left this profile pretty up in the air for awhile. Truly if you want to know who I am.... you can see a piece of me in my writings. I'm still not on the look at for the next best thing. If you like what you see and you want to meet.... I will be out in the community at events. I'm always happy to meet up there or possibly a meal during one of the events.... otherwise....
I'm not looking for random connections.... I'm not looking for friends with benefits. Sex isn't the end all be all.... but it is great..... I'm just not desperate for a hook up.... no judgements if you are.... just not where km at on my journey.
Im not looking for random play or a random scene.... not my cup of tea... sure when I first hit the scene I did a little of that.... but realized I was looking for deeper. When I realized I couldnt get deeper until I drove deeper into myself.... that's what I did. I've spent the last 2 years healing and growing. I'm a fucking power house now. IVE done the work. With that said.... I'm still not particularly looking. When it's right it'll be there and I'll feel it..... so please dont waste the emails unless we've met.... I simply wont answer them unless I feel called. That's happened once in 3 years.... if you want roll the dice.
What I know is this journey has shown me it will be a rare gem that claims me..... when it's right it will be right and all the emails in the world wont matter.

I dont general accept random friend requests. But If your that special snowflake that you think i will.... please send it will sit with all the rest. Yes. I dont even bother declining.

I have gotten very concious and intentional where and how much time I put where. If I'm at an event come meet me.

But also I'm still in illinois. But I'm a wanderer at heart and wont be for much longer but honestly life and the divine are leading me and I dont know where I'll end up.

I'm on a mission at the moment and it will help me fill this purpose in this lifetime.... I dont have time for bull shit. If your on it keep it moving... if you dont and I see it... I will. I'm only looking to make real connections. And sure I hear you..... arent we all..
NO... Not all of you out there are. It's just reality. I no longer have the stomach for superficial so if your not going to dive.... keep moving.

I am more than one side of the slash..... I'm an energy worker.... tantric preistess... massage therapist..... spiritual warrior ....... carrier of messages..... idk.... im not even human. I am a beautiful creature and shapeshifter and possible fairy.... yes laugh... im just fucking magical and it just is..... so yes im a bit weird and I live it and I love myself... if im np your cup of tea great! But if I am......

So yes if you want to know me.... read.... if you want to meet me and connect.... the event I attend are on there..... once we met if there is more.... then event is not forever...

Alright I'm tired of typing....
Dragonfly spirit.....

I have removed most labels from my profile. Why? Because not all people are the same and I wouldn't be submissive to just anyone. It has seemed to me when you label yourself everyone expects certain personalities with them that they see in you with others. But as a mutidemintional person not everyone triggers the submissiveness inside of me. So labels removed.......

...there's nothing sexier than a soul who shows up open hearted, full of love, wisdom and compassion. there's nothing more powerful than a soul who is clear about who he/she is and what their purpose is for bring here. there is nothing more satisfying than living your life in full alignment with that truth.

The Universe sends us directions through our intuition; and we receive them through an inner voice, a tug in the heart, a sense, a vibe, a deep inner thought, a feeling, a certain subtle knowing, an energy that directs us along the way. We each feel this intuition in a different way, and because it is subtle, it can be elusive. If we pay attention we can all feel it in the center of our hearts flowing through our veins, like a deep inborn guidance system wired to the Divine....

"theres magic in recognizing a kindred spirit, and an even greater power in letting yourself love them. when it scares you, let it - that's your ego letting go."
--Jacqueline koyanagi, ascension

“The person in life that you will always be with the most, is yourself. Because even when you are with others, you are still with yourself, too! When you wake up in the morning, you are with yourself, laying in bed at night you are with yourself, walking down the street in the sunlight you are with yourself. What kind of person do you want to walk down the street with? What kind of person do you want to wake up in the morning with? What kind of person do you want to see at the end of the day before you fall asleep? Because that person is yourself, and it’s your responsibility to be that person you want to be with.”
~ C. JoyBell C.

Our judgements about others have little to do with those whom we judge and everything to do with our need to love-which, if observed, can be released, allowing us to return to being loving. Our fear of judgement from others is really about our desire to be loved. Once released, we can return to heart. When we let go of the need to be loved and to love, we find we truly are loving and loved.

Way of the winding path
~eve eschner hogan [if254 1]

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