Just out of long term vanilla relationship, trying to avoid that again.
Not into sex no strings, interested in an ongoing thing that may evolve into a relationship. Mental connection is part of the turn on for me and that's hard to develop with hookups.
I tend to be a little old fashioned when it comes to dating and getting to know someone, even in kink life. I don't want to see your junk until I am sure I like you and I can be picky.
Am always looking for new friends- open minded, liberal, creative, funny, smart people to expand my social circle. If you want to hang out, send me a message.
Ideally looking for a partner who shows "vanilla" in public but is submissive and adventurous in private. I don't want a sissy boy.
Although my interests are varied and flexible T&D and chastity are what gets me off the most. I don't enjoy yelling, screaming, insulting, or making you dress in funny clothes. I like my man to be man, just one that follow my rules. My ideal mate would want me to have total control over how, when and where they cum, or don't- with a little pain and house service thrown in for fun.
Not looking for a poly situation, but my perfect guy would enjoy being shared from time to time with another girl. I love women.
In my vanilla life I have a profesional career, in graduate school, am an avid reader, amateur chef, people watcher, city lover and an eternal optimist.
I am 5'5, 140, size 8.
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