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Welcome to My profile.
Here are a few highlights about me you may want to know before hitting the send button on that ever inspiring message you have just waiting there in the forefront of your brain.
[B]Do not address me as Mistress! You have NOT earned that privilege yet! You may use Ma'am or MsPebbles. Those who call me Mistress will be blocked!!!
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1. I am married. My hubby is also my sub. So yes, I have a primary partner. I'm completely honest about my relationships with my husband. I have several non collared subs I play with. I am bi-sexual. I am a mom. I am a non smoker. I am also a social drinker. I am D&D free.
2. I am very independent and I know what I want. Just don't ask me where I want to eat! I will always say Outback or TGI Fridays!
3. I am not just dominant in the bedroom. I'm not going to be dominant just on your terms. I am not secretly a submissive waiting for the right Dom to come sweep me off my feet. I want service first and play second.
4. I like control. A lot. And I am a happy sadist, which means I like to consensually and responsibly hurt people at times while giggling at your pain, the sound of good moans, slaps and stings to the skin. I love men who are naturally and deeply submissive and want to give of themselves to me on my terms.
5. I am also an outgoing, friendly, happy, relatively normal person who likes friendly, happy, and relatively normal people. What I mean by this is, yes I have dominant tendencies and seek true power exchange with the right person. I also seek cuddles, conversations and yes I am going to say it … INTIMACY. Gasp I know right? Fucking nuts. Yep, I need a person who is willing not just to get down on their knees, but also to be emotionally real with me. This involves communicating clearly about your emotions, needs and who you are. I want to dominate a mind and a soul, not just a body.
I became interested in the lifestyle in the late 90's and attended my first munch in 2002. In June of 2003 I created a group for FemDoms called Va Dommes and subs in groups. This group is still around if you wish to join us. Being the owner of a group means I go to munches and other public events.
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My Ideal Person:
Interested in serving me?
1. You must be Local!! Live with 30 mins of me.
2. You should be single.
3. You should be a NON smoker, social drinker. ( Like wine a plus)
4. Live alone a huge plus.
5. Pain lovers go to the front of the line as well as service subs.
I am ALSO looking for friends and those who are local who would like to join the Local BDSM community. If you are a local sub or Domme and would like to know more about the local FemDom group in the Hampton Roads area please do find me on chat or send me a message. I like helping people find groups that could benefit them.
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