Does anyone still read these?
As I get older, my desires have changed. I started out looking for that cookie cutter style sub/slave. And while I have had some great times, I want more.
So lets start with what I am not. I am not a sugar dom. We all have bills to pay and in this day and age, everyone must put something into the household.
I am not here to force you into a role. If you say you are submissive/slave, I will treat you as such. What I am not going to do is use force and intimidation to get what I want. That is not who I am. As a friend said to me once "Anyone can use a gun to get someone to obey, or threats of violence, it worked well for Gangis Khan. But few can make a person willingly bow down and give all they are out of nothing more then respect and care".
I am poly, I do have a primary baby girl.
I am a sexual person, that is part of my play. This does not mean all play involves sex, but it has a sexual tone to it.
While in play time I may strangle you, beat you with canes or crops or a whip and leave bruises and welts from time to time, I am not going to make you bleed intentionally, beat you so hard you can't get up the next day and go to work, or clean house. I am not going to make you need to use make up to cover up or make you hide an injury because you are afraid of what people will think. I truly am a more compassionate person then that. I can do light beating, but when it comes to bordering on abuse? Not gonna happen with me, I spent my hood this way, I won't do that to someone else. I don't want someone who wants to die at my hand, sorry, if you have a Vore fetish or death fetish I am not for you. I spent to long existing in life, now I want to live life, not take it.
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My Ideal Person:
I don't care what you were born with, to me the body is a shell that can be changed with hard work or money. What matters is what is inside. I want someone feminine, who wants to serve and knows it is more then just sexual. While sex is great, it cannot be all that a person does. There has to be more. I want someone willing to take chances and explore new things. Just remember it is not Kinky until you have done it more then twice.
Younger and slave like personalities get a ride towards the top of the list
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