Most people describe me as being optimistic, energetic, funny, motivated and driven. At work I am in a position of leadership and responsibility, so it's nice to get a break from all of that and play on the submissive side. Being a bit on the large side I really want to find some one who I can be comfortable with. Once that's established, there is a nearly limitless amount of fun we can have. I am looking / hoping for some fun but also possibly something a bit more if things work out. A relationship where in all other areas of life outside the bedroom we are equals. I like to write, although I'm not great at it. I work in the creative industry, but tend to be very analytical and process oriented. I have strong intrapersonal skills and I am primarily driven to try to make others happy. I am always wanting to learn more, and am determined that I can do anything with enough thoughtfulness, research and resilience. I love to solve problems, find ways to make things work, find better solutions etc. In my off time I love to learn and discover new things whether it's learning more about the area (I've only lived in this area for a couple years, and I find there's always new things to explore) - or reading up on something new. I am the type of person that will give pretty much anything a try at least once. I'm very easy going, and it's pretty easy to make me happy. I will always find the positive in any situation, and I tend to always try to see the best in people too. I am patient and understanding - but also know when to draw lines. But I believe that patience, honesty and open communication is the key for any kind of relationship.
My Ideal Person:
My ideal person would be educated, compassionate, honest and have a great sense of humor. Some one who, as far as who they are looking for, isn't looking to cycle through as many conquests as possible, but some one who will actually give a real relationship a shot. He is hard working, strong, optimistic, maybe a little nerdy. And kinky. Sex is fun. Life is fun! I want some one who has a similar attitude.