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Focus
Posted:Mar 16, 2024 5:57 am
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2024 2:06 am
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“Focus intently and you’ll see the unseeable. The world she rarely shares with anyone; the darkest corners she scarcely visits herself. Henry Miller wrote that an indescribably magnificent world appears within anything or anyone the moment we pay closer attention. Notice the parts of her you’re only privy to if you truly listen while she speaks. Be attentive to her every detail. The subtle differences that make her, her. Unlike any other. See the constellations of faded birthmarks speckled across her skin or how the brown of her eyes is simply a layer atop a churning sea of hazel. See that some days she is distant, off in her head, and rarely smiles for hours while others she is keenly aware of her thoughts and actions, bubbling with joy and laughter. Focus intently and you’ll be gifted the subtleties of her magnificent hidden world like the nuances of her squeezes, the individual meanings while holding your hand, or the sordid conversations she has with you with nothing more than a gaze.”

—daily-esprit-descalier
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Mastering the Mind
Posted:Mar 12, 2024 5:16 am
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2024 2:07 am
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In the vast galaxy of BDSM, which is not a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away, the internet serves as a bustling marketplace where individuals proclaiming mastery are as numerous as stars in the night sky. Yet, amid this cacophony of self-proclaimed masters, there exists a profound distinction between those who merely speak of physical acts and those who understand the intricate dance of the mind within the BDSM dynamic.

For many, BDSM is not merely a physical indulgence but a multifaceted tapestry where the mental and emotional aspects intertwine with the physical. While some may revel solely in the physical sensations and power dynamics, others recognize that true mastery transcends mere physicality.

For many, the allure lies not only in the act of domination or submission but in the profound psychological exchange that occurs between partners. The consensual thrill of control, the surrender of power, and the exploration of boundaries are the threads that weave the fabric of BDSM into a rich and complex experience.

To a large number of people in the community physical play is but the icing on the cake, a tantalizing embellishment atop a foundation built upon trust, communication, and mutual understanding. It is the mental stimulation, the psychological journey shared between dominant and submissive, that forms the cornerstone of this lifestyle.

Mastery in BDSM is not simply measured by one's ability to wield a whip or bind with ropes but by their adeptness in navigating the intricate landscape of the mind. A true master or mistress recognizes the importance of psychological dominance, manipulating desire and anticipation, of delving into the deepest recesses of the psyche to unlock the true potential of their submissive.

In contrast, those who merely pay lip service to the title of master or mistress, focusing solely on the physical aspects of BDSM, often fail to grasp the true essence of the lifestyle. They may revel in the superficial trappings of power and control, but they lack the depth of understanding required to truly fulfill the needs of their submissive.

In the end, BDSM is a journey of self-discovery, a path that encompasses not only the body but the mind and soul as well. While physical play may provide gratification, it is the mental connection forged between partners that sustains and nourishes the true essence of BDSM. So, let us not be swayed by empty proclamations of mastery, but instead, let us seek those who understand that true dominance lies not in the whip, but in the mind.

©TLK2024
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Sunrise, Sunrise.
Posted:Mar 10, 2024 10:46 pm
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2024 2:43 am
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The past week has been gloomy with ceaseless downpours, but I was fortunate enough to capture a stunning sunrise this morning. The sky was a canvas of vibrant colors, with a blend of deep orange, soft pink, and gentle purple hues. The clouds looked like fluffy cotton balls, and they were scattered all over the sky, creating an ethereal backdrop. As the sun emerged from the horizon, it cast a warm and radiant glow over the damp earth, illuminating every drop of rainwater. The dew on the leaves sparkled like diamonds, and the chirping birds added a sweet melody to the tranquil atmosphere. It was a breathtaking moment that left me awestruck and rejuvenated my soul
~M.

"Night never had the last word. The dawn is always invincible."
~~Hugh B. Brown


Photo By: Me
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~Art Break
Posted:Mar 9, 2024 6:42 am
Last Updated:Mar 9, 2024 8:20 pm
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Artist: E Garcia Peña
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Money Can't Buy It
Posted:Mar 8, 2024 4:11 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2024 7:59 am
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Money Can't Buy It ~ Annie Lennox ~ Diva

Money can't buy it, baby
Sex can't buy it, baby
Drugs can't buy it, baby
You can't buy it, baby

I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe in love alone yea yea
Take the power to set you free
Kick down the door and throw away the key
Give up your needs
Your poisoned seeds
Find yourself elected to a different kind of creed

I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe in the power of creation
I believe in the good vibration
I believe in love alone yea yea

Won't somebody tell me what we're coming to
It might take forever till we watch those dreams come true
All the Money in the world won't buy you peace of mind
You can have it all but you still won't be satisfied

Money can't buy it, baby
Sex can't buy it, baby
Drugs can't buy it, baby
You can't buy it, baby

Now,
Hear this
Pay attention to me
'Cause I'm a rich white girl and it's plain to see
I got every kind of thing that the Money can buy
Let me tell you all about it
Let me amplify
I got diamonds?
You heard about those
I got so many that I can't close my safe at night in the dark
Lying awake in a sick dream

I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe that love alone might do these things for you
I believe in the power of creation
I believe in the good vibration
I believe in love alone yea yea
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Something Beautiful
Posted:Mar 6, 2024 4:49 am
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2024 2:19 am
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Exhaustion can make a woman appear beautiful. Her wet hair clings to her skin and her arms are tied in place in case she regains consciousness. She is drenched in the rhapsody of his orchestrations.
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Write This Down
Posted:Mar 5, 2024 9:18 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2024 2:52 am
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Dominance is not about control over a submissive. Dominance is about leading and the submissive following. These words have been said thousands of times by thousands of people. I suspect it will continue to be said for many years to come.

Submissives do not seek people to control them. They seek a leader that proves time and time again that they are qualified to follow.

Mistakes happen. Wrong decisions are made. It’s how you handle those decisions that make you reliable and trustworthy.
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Surrender
Posted:Mar 4, 2024 8:05 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2024 8:30 pm
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Surrender [ suh-ren-der ]

Verb: to give oneself up, as into the power of another; submit or yield.

"The word surrender has significant roots, in which 'render' has the meaning to melt and 'sur' means super or highest. In other words, the true meaning of surrender is to melt into that which is higher than yourself."

- Margo Anand
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Speaking Up About The Silent Treatment
Posted:Mar 2, 2024 1:48 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2024 1:09 pm
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In dominant-submissive relationships, the dynamics between partners can often involve correction and discipline. However, one practice that must come under scrutiny is the use of the silent treatment as a means of punishment or correction by the dominant partner. While some may argue that silence can be an effective tool for teaching a lesson, it is crucial to distinguish between healthy forms of silence, such as silent reflection or corner time, and the detrimental effects of silent treatment.

The silent treatment, when used by a dominant to punish or correct their submissive, involves intentionally ignoring or refusing to communicate with the submissive for a prolonged period. This is often emotionally damaging and erodes trust and communication within the relationship. Instead of fostering growth and understanding, it creates feelings of rejection, isolation, and insecurity in the submissive partner.

One of the key differences between silent treatment and other forms of silent correction, such as silent reflection or corner time, lies in the intention behind the silence. When a dominant imposes a period of silent reflection or corner time, it is typically done to provide the submissive with an opportunity to reflect on their behavior and understand the consequences of their actions. This form of correction is accompanied by clear communication from the dominant about why the punishment is being administered and what the submissive can do to improve their behavior in the future.

In contrast, the silent treatment is usually employed as a way for the dominant to exert control or manipulate the submissive. Rather than fostering understanding and growth, it serves to create a power imbalance within the relationship, with the dominant holding all the cards and the submissive left feeling powerless and confused.

Furthermore, the silent treatment can have long-lasting effects on the emotional well-being of the submissive partner. Being ignored or shut out by someone they care about can lead to feelings of worthlessness, anxiety, and depression. Over time, it can damage the foundation of trust and intimacy upon which healthy relationships are built.

The silent treatment should not be used as a form of punishment or correction within a dominant-submissive relationship. Instead, partners should focus on open communication, mutual respect, and constructive forms of correction that promote growth and understanding. By avoiding the use of the silent treatment and embracing healthier forms of discipline, dominants and submissives can cultivate stronger, more fulfilling relationships built on trust, respect, and empathy.

©TLK2024
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Leap Day
Posted:Feb 29, 2024 9:09 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2024 5:45 am
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Every four years, we are given one extra day. One more stretch of hours to do whatever we want with. Use them. Be productive, be lazy, or how about a bit of both. One extra chunk of 24 hrs to fill with kindness and gratitude perhaps. Maybe reach out to someone you maybe haven’t talked to in a long time. Or do something so outside your safe little box of comfort, you’ll remember it forever; really amp up your weird. Skydive nude. Or don’t, it’s your day. Maybe use your bonus day to build something, draw, write twaddle, cross stitch, paint, or do ridiculously difficult origami. Blindfolded. Get crafty. Get sweaty. Get horizontal. Get a tattoo. Get drunk. Get on the road and drive somewhere you’ve never been. Get cultured and visit a gallery or museum or see a play. Eat something you swore you’d never put in your mouth. Do it alone or with your partner in crime. Just don’t let this day slump into the pile of all those other mundane, forgettable, run of the mill days. Today is rare. Use these unique hours with purpose and intent. You can be boring tomorrow.

@daily-esprit-descalier
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