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aliljaded 48F  
4370 posts
3/14/2019 10:30 am
Nipple Clamps

Nipple clamps mean many things to different submissives. For some with highly sensitive nipples, any mechanical pressure is simply far too painful to contemplate while others cannot get enough. Before a Dominant goes digging out the Japanese clover clamps and heavy lead weights, it is best to get to know a submissive and their tolerance to nipple stimulation and pressure. Do not assume. Sensitivity is highly variable and personalized. An otherwise hot scene can be utterly ruined by a failure to understand the tolerance and desire of a submissive in this area. Work up to things gradually. Get to know her sensitivities and desires. Recognize that sensitivity can change dramatically with different states of arousal. What might be painful and unacceptable early on might be highly erotic as stimulation is increased and orgasm is approached. Take the time to learn her responses, for it is only with awareness and knowledge of this sort that a Dominant can effectively set and maintain the desired pace of a scene. Don’t be clumsy. Know your submissive and all her responses. You will be well rewarded for your efforts.

~ For The Love of a Submissive, 2013

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”

3 posts
3/15/2019 2:31 am

informative post thank you

asianat2008 64M
3925 posts
3/15/2019 1:44 am

I feel it is torture for a woman to use nipple clamps and then to pull. Just use on them and have joy.

Self-respect is the corner-stone of virtues.

ina_scent 63F  
1804 posts
3/14/2019 1:19 pm

This is very good advice and very important to me. My nipple get more sensitive with time and not the reverse. If she wishes for my nipple discomfort i much prefer suction devices of some kind and hand pulling. Clamps can give nerve damage and i would feel devastated to lose nipple/breast sensitivity.

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DonBrown 60M
60 posts
3/14/2019 12:46 pm

A good article, thank you. DB

Jinali 39F  
68 posts
3/14/2019 12:08 pm

Stop touching my nipples and buy back my jewelrys and support.

rosaenaluin 60F  
2760 posts
3/14/2019 11:50 am

Great writing and great picture too! love them both !X

worshipmymeat 52M  
100 posts
3/14/2019 11:23 am

Great post!

100% Truth!

And besides, what is the rush Dom's?

Sir L

aliljaded 48F  
1628 posts
3/14/2019 10:33 am

Good advice.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”

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