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rosaenaluin 65F
9906 posts
7/3/2018 1:28 am
Crazy stuff is going on....


My eldest sister lived on Ibiza, for more then 20 years.
When she decided to come back to Holland, she asked me, if i could take some days off, and help her clear her mess.. accumilated stuff from more then 20 years.

So, i took 14 days off, working holliday and helped her night and day.
Sure we did beach time, and dinner out and all that
but most of the time i worked my ass off, on her stuff.

She was still working.

Now, i am going to move.

My sister and me, we meet to celebrate her birthday and the conversation goes all directions, as it always is when we are together, it is always very nice and easy, comfortable.

All of the sudden she tells me; No, i cant come and help you clear out your house.
Huh?

I did not ask her, she just tells me....

She is not working anymore, has time on her hands....
?
I think this is a bit rude, she does not HAVE to help me, i did not even asked her...
but, telling me so adamant she wont...?

And then she jumps back on the train....
finished.

We have for sure, a very strange family dynamic.

sometimes things seems to be only able to just go, flow one way and never the other....

So, now i am working my days through 7 years of accumilated stuff!
Have some buyers for some special stuff, and a old neighbor is helping me out.
Tearing down al kind of stuff, buying things too!

Crazy bitch sister! i love her, anyway!

I am taking things slow, there is a heat wave overhere in Europe/Holland!
In between working houres i clear out of much as i can.

What to do with inhereted things?
Old vases, from the 50/60e?
The market is overflow with that stuff,

or old silverware?

Pack it all in?!
To move to an other place and pack it out again? it is not 'doing' anything?
except for gathering dust...?
In my family such things dont have any value at all, they will easily throw it all out.
No sense of our history or family objects.....

All my books... oh my.... I can pack so much already, that feels real good.

Crazy bitch sister!

rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/3/2018 1:34 am

Bette Middler; Youre moving out to dayyyyy?!
such a great song, fine lyrics! so funny!


it about breaking up, actually.


LoverOfGaiaSub 62F  
13857 posts
7/3/2018 4:08 am

Oh, I feel you! I spent yesterday unpacking boxes at my parent's home that I packed up for them back in April. Nobody else in the family is going to unpack and decorate the house for our parents. So it was one big working day on my holiday in Florida. Later this week I return to packing up my own house. Good luck! And do try to stay cool!


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/3/2018 5:14 am

LoverOfGaiaSub,

Ah, we are almost in the same situation, almost...
packing and unpacking, again all over again....

family is a strange thing, dont you think?

My house is very cool, i am thankfull for that.

The one good thing about moving is, that is a opportunity to throw a whole lot a way, give away, sell, etc..
I stay positive !


MyLoveandPet 55M/48F
10164 posts
7/3/2018 6:27 am

I spent years helping my sister, babysitting her 3 kids for free, cleaning her house, gave her a car (twice), let her live with me rent free (twice) always giving, helping Her but she never did a damn thing for me in return.

Good luck with your move o I'm in the middle of one myself

ML.

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jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
7/3/2018 11:10 am

rosa

Moving is NO fun! But your sister? I wonder why she will not return the favour?


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


MsSwanger 35F
15964 posts
7/3/2018 11:38 am

I think we all have that sister.

My suster conplains i dont visit her enough.

She visit me ONCE (to pick ip her kods i was babysitting) in the lsst five years.

I moved awhile ago and if i wss dying and cslled for help
She couldn't loxate my house, although i have invited ber.

Lol...less i habe to do niw.

Crazy bitch sistersssss


MsSwanger
Journey into my soul.


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
7/3/2018 4:10 pm

sisters just have that way of disappointing us at times.....


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
7/3/2018 5:13 pm

begrateful you sister is not a dominat like mine. We are like the irrepressible force and the immovable object. She always wants to fun my life. Critical as all get out. But she is my sister and I love her. She has my best interest in mind. Shes just does not know what my best interests are. Nor does she know of my dominant/kink nature. But I know she is a female dominat to the men in her life. One of them let it slip out when visiting me. He did not know I would know the lingo.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/3/2018 11:05 pm

MyLoveandPet;
I understand, Sisters!
could it be possible that submissive women in general, are more of a giving nature then non submissive women?
just wondering?


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/3/2018 11:09 pm

jenny,
That was my thought too!
crazy bitch sister!


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/3/2018 11:10 pm

MsSwanger, there is no balance is such relations, better off without them. dont you think?


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/3/2018 11:13 pm

drmgirl,
this came just out of the bleu! i did not even asked her... I know my sister... she is, like me, in her own way strange.
ce la vie.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/3/2018 11:16 pm

angie, sisters can be fun, I would have loved that you could come to help!

That is my goal too! get rid of a lot of extras....

I like the whole process of moving, knowing i will be dead tired afterwards, enjoy myself during the whole proces!


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/3/2018 11:24 pm

If she was a dominant, she for sure should not "use" that on me.

She is just busy, there is a very big difference between being dominant or just busy. It is not the same as being dominant.

You only are "dominant" to your partner. not to your family or some stranger!

She, my whole family knows of my Orientation. being submissive, masochistic.
In day to day life i am in control. of my life, my self.

haha, so her 'secret' is out now?!


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/3/2018 11:27 pm

That last reaction was for to DancingDom.


MyLoveandPet 55M/48F
10164 posts
7/9/2018 6:08 am

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    MyLoveandPet;
    I understand, Sisters!
    could it be possible that submissive women in general, are more of a giving nature then non submissive women?
    just wondering?
well I suppose it may be true that submissive women are more giving/forgiving, but I'm not at all submissive and I stopped helping and speaking to my bitch-ass sister a decade ago my life is better without her toxic neediness

ML.

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rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
7/10/2018 3:09 am

That is sometimes the best deciscion you can make!

Some people just want to take, take take, and other s want to have a balance going on...
I dont do well, with take people! i avoid them as the plague!



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