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Why do men ghost I thought id take a second and address this topic. It seems either alot of dudes are doing it or alot of women are complaining about it... maybe a lil of both? Ghosting is a term where the male simply disappears and stops writing a woman....well it can apply to any gender. We generally like to stereotype men as being walking penises..They lead these women on in order to jones about the lifestyle. But if this was true and the woman was engaging in the dude's fetishes...wether in reallife or vicariously via email. Then why would he disappear ( barring ofcourse him being married,etc). If im engaged in a good conversation with a woman...and all is going well, the last thing i'd do is disappear. I will give ghosting a new spin.. Alot of women want a relationship ( both vanilla and lifestyle)... i feel like this adds to my burden as a sub.. I not only have to be a great sub, but also have to fit the mold as mr perfect bf. So women tend to be extra selective. Its sorta like dating a woman with ..there is that added step..the woman not only has to like you but the do to. A women may have a long vetting time for this male and want to see if he is worthy. This time literally can be a week to a few months But a male may feel the pressure of all of this..sorta like julia roberts in the run away bride.. I know ive been strung along by women..it's like you go from potential sub to friendzone...after a few weeks he begins to wonder if she is even still interested in him. He wonders if he should look elsewhere..he wonders if he is just filling a stop and she is waiting for someone better. Alot of guys then just chicken shit out and just disappear. My advice is to actively engage a dude as a person..im not suggesting she should be his kink provider. But if she friendzones the guy he will walk. One Domme told me right off the bat she doesnt want to talk about kink. I said cool. I am more then just kink. I said i am open to talking about myself and my life.. And that was pretty much it..just alot of crickets |
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5/13/2019 5:10 am |
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or it could be life just catches up with them and they have no time for anything else. Years ago my son smashed my computer because he got the FBI ransomware and he panicked. I was offline for 7 months and none of my passwords worked anymore. Another time I lost my job and took another the next day overseas, I had send her a message with the details of where I was going but never heard from her again.
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In my (bitter) experience, women can ghost just as easily as men!
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It does go both ways, i feel a lot are here for the thrill at the moment with no intention of taking it further
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All I can say is I've needed the Ghostbusters a time or two myself 
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