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likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
11/23/2017 6:47 am
Like bein michael jorden and then having someone ask about his golf game?


This is my current situation...

Im talking with a potential Domme that wants to get to know me better first\ go slow\ She is looking more for a relationship.( Heavy on the relationship part). She is a bit older than me..didnt want to give the impression that this is some 20 yr that is trolling men for money\ the pseudo Domme..lol.

Okay cool...im not looking to get laid\ want a relationship\ want to be owned etc.

We've been exchanging emails for about 3 weeks now...

The bad part is it's sorta like having michael jorden over for Thanksgiving and someone wanting to know about his golf game....
( Huh?) Its michael fucking jorden

Basically we don't talk alot about bdsm..She wants to talk more about me...and honestly my personal life is about as excited as Michael's golf game.

She told me i score about a 7 or 8 on Her interest scale right now ( i asked)

Ironically i'm like mike.. my ' basketball' game..er lifestyle game is what im know for\ is tons more exciting and would attract more Dominants...

Yet right now she just wants to talk about golf.

I don't what to be ' that sub' that constantly brings up the lifestyle in regular conversations..esp if She doesn't

BUT lifestyle wise we are like a 95 percent match..She wants x\ y\ and z in a male and yep im heavily into them

So it is really hard for me to read the other person's interest level...i dont want to get stuck being the guy that gets a pen pal out of this and nothing more..the type thatt just keeps on writing and nothing happens.
Been there and done that

i think ideally I don't want to be judged...She finally wants to do a meet\ greet maybe this weekend.. but then is gonna be super busy for the next month...trip etc.

So yeah...its like having jorden ( even current jorden,..cause you know he still could play) just sitting on a bench waiting...to see if he is good enough.

My lifestyle game is still top notch..but my personal life is an 8 tops on the interest scale
I cant make ' golf ' interesting..
I wrote her such...

My problem is i never had this problem...never had the long waiting period...if we got together we did and played.
But this Domme is different. She offers everything i always wanted in the lifestyle..she checks off all my interest blocks and things i always wanted to explore fully.
So its hard to pass on this...she is into alot of guy stuff that alot of women arent like male chastity\ strap ons\cbt\ass play\ oral servant etc.
Sure there are Dommes into all of this..but they are hard to find

So its hard to me to just walk away etc..lol

likesmatureones 55M

11/23/2017 6:56 am


Like i said if this was a 20 yr old wanna be writing my 48 yr old ass..it would be a scam..
Im not that stupid...

The ultimate karma would be id turn out to be great relationship wise and then make a crappy male sub.
Part of the problem could still be an age issue..she is 63. Im almost 49...i like older in general...but at that age people feel the need for a retirement buddy . They want to travel.


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
11/23/2017 3:45 pm

I think you should go for it, Leo....... she sounds very interesting



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