Blog : Flogging Scene with oralservant915 "You Didn't Touch Him!"

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5/28/2017 1:04 pm

Flogging Scene with oralservant915 "You Didn't Touch Him!"

[I'll post his description of the scene next]
“You didn’t touch him!” K was holding her hand up commenting on a few special moments in the scene she just witnessed.
Those moments, touching without physically touching is something that I’ve had in a scene on occasion. It’s intense and I was glad some people were able to see it. More on that later.
When Oralservant915 asked me to flog him, I was hoping I could give him some understanding of what his Mistress ScorpianaRB experiences. Not that he’ll have the same experience, but to get him to a state of mind that is more than just being hit.
She is tall, fit, curvy, a joy to play with because of her reactions. So far, every time we play, and not always all that hard, she cries. It’s a desired outcome for her. Someone who recently witnessed our play in a more private setting said she felt Scorpina’s emotions and teared up herself. I had teared up a bit myself and hope that I can let that out more often. Playing with her is intense, beautiful emotion.
Oralservant915 provides ScorpinaRB with aftercare for the workshop since I have to continue teaching and coaching.
That night I flogged Oralservant915 first. In our negotiations he demonstrated his hand signal he uses as a safe signal. The plan included hitting as hard as I could. He’s a powerfully built man and likely was going to be able to take a lot. That’s wasn’t my focus, but it would be something I would enjoy.
Oralservant915 wore all black, leather corset, mini-skirt, 5 inch stilettos, thigh highs and garters. I believe Mistress took care of his makeup. The look is not the cliché, “passable.” I don’t know how else to explain it, but his look, for Oralservant915, is simply right.
After negotiations I said, “Let’s take a few minutes to connect…,” as I put my arms on Oralservant915’s powerfully built shoulders. He must lift weights.
I said a bit to draw Oralservant915 into his own mind, and then began removing some of his clothes. Then, “…as you feel the cuffs wrap around your wrist, notice how that feels…”
Leading him to the cross, fastening him with the suspension cuffs, then saying, “Oralservant915, fastend to the cross, maybe it’s easier to just let you, you can just let go, and the third time I said that, I stroked the small of his back and Oralservant915 jumped. When a man hasn’t been touched in this intimate way, it usually gets a reaction.
That moment, that jump, is usually followed by an acceptance where you see the body relax and Oralservant915 did so. I love that.
What I did with my floggers will sound like so many of my scenes. They play an important role, but the mechanics aren’t the most important part of the story.
I started with my string floggers, soft, lots of (Hundreds) of tails, yellow and orange (that glow under UV!) They aren’t intimidating at all. While combined it’s surprising the heavy thud that’s possible, but for some time, I stroked his back with both floggers and my hand. And as I started in earnest, rhythmically flogged him.
Sometimes his hips would grind and when I checked in, putting my body and my face close to his. Even when there’s no sex, and even when I haven’t done anything overtly sexual, arousal and desire is often part of my scenes.
I’d ramp up the intensity, the force of the blows, increase the oralservant915 of figure 8 and double flogging, and changing to leather floggers that progressively got more intense.
In my mind and my body, I imagine I have this energy, often I’ll make it warm and golden, or white, and sometimes it’s a ball in front of me. Sometimes it becomes a crystal shape. Sometimes I bring it around my body and imagine I can infuse it with all the good emotions and energies I’m feeling. Sometimes I’ll imagine this energy sprouts a branch and connects with my partner. Sometimes I imaging the entire ball gets a large part that extends and touches and sometimes envelopes my bottom. Sometimes I give the whole thing to them, and later take part or all of it back, maybe taking his energy with him.
Checking in, his breathing sometimes erratic, often more and more intense, lips full and jaw slack, moans each time I checked in.
The room is always loud which is because of acoustics as the music is very soft is. At times I thought I heard Oralservant915 utter something, but couldn’t make it out. Sometimes I thought I heard, “Raymond.”
Some times I stroke his upper back, sometimes the small of his back. This always would get a change in his body, sometimes smooth sensual movement, sometimes a jump.
Then the moment came. The one K commented on sometime after the scene. I imagine my energy gathering, compressing near, around and in my right hand. I held the hand above Oralservant915’s back, imagining the energy in my hand transferring to him as I imagined my hand touching him.
He jumped.
And made some noises and I’d suggest, after a slight head shake, went deeper inside.
Oralservant915 doesn’t need, or at least doesn’t think he needs aftercare. They went off to socialize and I wandered around in a happy haze. Someone held me at some point and I’m just realizing as I write this, I don’t remember who. And I spend some time in the aftercare room. Later I played with ScorpianaRB, getting her to tears which is always a heady and profound scene for me. We all cuddled in the aftercare and at some point I broke out into a crying jag. That was a wonderful release. I already felt good, after that I felt, lighter.
How does this work, touching without touching? I know the things I do, pretty much using my imagination, feeling what I want to feel. In my Connections – Putting Emotions Into Play workshop and Intimate Rituals, I teach approaches on how to get there.
What’s actually happening?
I confess. I don’t know. You can find out how to do it. Why? To me, it doesn’t really matter.
The word Faith comes to mind.
Have the intent, Perform the action (with the emphasis on performance) and it seems to work often enough to be worth pursuing.

RaymondWise 65M/51F

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5/28/2017 1:08 pm

Here's his account of our scene:

BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE

Hello my name is oralservant915; I am a heterosexual Alpha male between the hours of 9 am and 5 pm Monday through Friday. I am a submissive sissy slut to Lady A, that is writing for another time. I have been a sissy slut for a total of nine months and it has been an amazing journey, which is still going on as I write this.
I met Raymond through my Mistress. He flogs her on a regular schedule. I have been giving the honor to watch and more recently assist with aftercare as the flogging is an emotional experience for my Mistress. The first time Mistress was flogged by Raymond I thought he was hurting her and had to check my over protective persona, that session went well, I began to trust Raymond and we developed a friendship to the point I asked Raymond if he would flog me. Please note that I have only been in the life style and someone’s submissive for only nine months, so I had no clue what a knowledgeable flogging would be like as I had never been flogged by someone who knew the art of flogging like Raymond.
My initial thoughts were I will have this guy beating on me and that will be what I walk away with. Well after, several attempts at flogging dates and attending a few of Raymond’s flogging class, we finally coordinate our schedules and a flogging date was scheduled for April 8, 2017, at the Aviary. Mistress and I arrived and met and greeted our friends and the new faces in the crowd.
We met up with Raymond who not only was going to flog me for the first time but now was also flogging Mistress after my session. After, a search to find space for our session we find a x-cross on the second floor, a metal x-cross in a corner of the room, where a couple finished up their play.
Mistress was in her black n green corset with black panties and a lovely body stocking under the corset with heels on she looked lovely.
I was in all black leather corset short leather mini skirt, with laced black panties and laced garter attached to my black thigh highs and pair of black five inch stiletto heels. Mistress decided this was a makeup night so my face is also done.
Raymond sets up his floggers for our session. Mistress placed Raymond’s heavy duty wrist cuffs on my wrists and gave me a stern look which meant enjoy yourself. My clothing was removed and I was cuffed to the x-cross. The x-cross is long enough that I can hang my head between the cross openings and choke myself, which of course I utilized when the flogging began, there I was restrained in a garter, thigh highs, black laced thong panties and five inch heels.
Raymond touched my flesh for the first time I jump as I have never had a man place his hand on me in such an intimate way. Raymond told me to relax, be calm and to listen to the sounds around me, I submitted to Raymond’s voice which created a comfortable feeling in me, his right hand all the long touching my back creating a connection between us, which I was very aware of was taking place. I submitted to his touch and words. His voice almost hypnotic, he told me he was going to begin. Before hand we negotiated that I would put up three fingers and a circle if it got to intense or I was hurt in any way, other than that Raymond could flog with all he had. Raymond began with very soft floggers that at first I could not feel, but as my skin warmed and I closed my eyes, I blocked out the sounds in the room and could only hear Raymond’s voice, I began to feel the floggers, I was shocked as the floggers did not feel how I imagined them to feel, they actually felt like Raymond was still gently touching my back, I searched in my head how am I still feeling his touch? I began to notice I could feel Mistress’s eyes on me closely even though my eyes were closed. In my head I could see Raymond’s hand getting ready to touch me and I reacted to his hand before he actually touched me.
As the session went on I released all expectations I had in my mind. At first allowed my flesh to enjoy this new sensation that Raymond created. I mentally began to notice that I had become increasingly horny, my desire for sex was growing and many lustful and sexually nasty thoughts began to pop into my head.
Raymond’s floggers became an extension of his hands in my mind, touching me all over my back and shoulders it felt good. I noticed my hips began to rotate in a circular motion and more and more I wanted to be fucked or fuck someone.
I moaned deep when Raymond stopped flogging to check if all was well with me, when he first did this I could feel his beard prickly and his voice loud in my ears, but after the second check in he felt soft, warm inviting, all the while I was grinding my ass into him. In my mind’s eye I was facing Raymond with my arms wide open inviting him into me. The reality was Raymond had opened a door that only one other person had opened. my Mistress.
For a minute everything went black, as I returned to my head I mentally saw Raymond and I on a pathway holding hands. As Raymond floggers hit my back the pathway would light up for us to take the next step, by this time I fully felt energy from Raymond which allowed me to give energy to Raymond, I am in full grind even when Raymond is not checking in on me. I believe a door to my lust, my darkest thoughts was opened that night but only three people realized what had happened Raymond, My Mistress and me. I had lost control and given it to Raymond in grand fashion; I could feel Raymond’s skin on his face when he leaned into me. I could feel the material on his clothes, the leather belt around his waist; I believed I could feel the hairs on my legs reach out to touch Raymond’s pants legs.
I felt a lot that evening. My mind returned me to the path that Raymond and I were walking on, Raymond appear to me to be a form of energy touching all of me and I must say my mind and body enjoyed Raymond’s energy touch as I consumed it, I realized I was giving energy to Raymond, which generated from my very submissive persona Pamela, she is very lustful and very sexual, but mostly she loves to pleasure people. Pamela wanted to please Raymond during this energy exchange.

Raymond’s last flogging hit was us approaching the ending of our path, Raymond’s body fell on to mine. He was breathing hard, sweaty I loved it, I was still grinding against him a little slower now, this is when I realized that I had satisfied Raymond, he had giving his energy to me and I had gave him my energy to a point where there was nothing left except the energy of being satisfied. This was a beautiful experience for me, I did not need after care, Raymond took a break after to restore himself for Mistress session, we went to after care after Mistress session and there I held Raymond and Mistress as they each released in their own way. I enjoyed this beautiful experience as we held each other. i reveled in my first pleasurable experience to flogging and connecting with another human in such energetic way that it has taken me more than a month to find words to explain what happened that night.


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